Showing posts with label Blythe Danner. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Blythe Danner. Show all posts

Tuesday, 9 July 2013

Day 190: Detachment


A substitute teacher tries to stress to his class the importance of thinking for themselves. And a failing school is plagued by loneliness and struggle.

Each of the characters feel alone and undervalued and they’re aware that it’s unlikely to change. Meredith (Betty Kaye) is a student and she’s quite creative but her father dismisses her photography and wants her to work harder and lose weight. After a few of Henry’s (Adrien Brody) lessons, she wants to open up to him and share how she’s feeling. But she can’t and she eventually kills herself at school. There’s no one she can talk to and she can see no way out of how she’s feeling. The film uses parents’ night to hammer home the absence of parents in the lives of the children; not a single parent shows up for it. If they’re not willing to make the effort to hear about how their children are doing in school then they’re clearly failing to take an interest at home. Teachers can only do so much, children need their parents to play an active role in their lives.  

Henry meets a very young prostitute and he lets her stay in his house. He cares for her without being condescending and she comes to be less aggressive and more trusting. They buy each other gifts and make breakfast for each other and they grow quite comfortable together. But Henry has difficulty forming any kind of attachment and he knows she can’t stay with him forever, so he phones a foster care facility to come and take her away. She’s devastated, as is he, but it seems like it was good for her.

In class, Henry stresses that the kids have to think for themselves and to form their own opinions. To rely only on what you’ve been told for your understanding of the world is to become insignificant. You have to question everything and read as much as you can. The teachers aren’t to blame for what goes on in schools, they’re just doing the best they can with what they’ve got. There needs to be more freedom for expression so that the kids can find out who they are. I understand there has to be some rigidity in the curriculum but if you make every student learn the same things in the same way with no allowances for individuality then you end up with children who have no interest in what they’re learning. And in fact, I’d say they’re not learning anything, they’re just memorising enough to pass exams. There’s too much importance placed on grades and not enough placed on learning, so all the joy goes out of it and that’s why you end up with so many young people killing themselves over exams.

Really liked this film and how it highlighted the loneliness and insignificance felt (at some time or another) by everyone.

8/10

Thursday, 16 May 2013

Day 136: What's Your Number?



Ally (Anna Faris) reads in a magazine that the average number of sexual partners women have  in their lifetime is 10.5 and that if your number is more than 20 then you’re less likely to get married. She is currently at number 19 and that same night she hits the 20 mark. Not wanting to go any higher, she decides to go back through her exes and see if she’ll end up with one of them. In order to track them down she enlists the help of her neighbour Colin (Chris Evans).

The synopsis on IMDb says, “A woman looks back at the past twenty men she's had relationships with in her life and wonders if one of them might be her one true love.” That would make you think that perhaps Ally had decided what was best for her and thought she’d find what she was looking for in a past relationship. But you would be wrong in thinking that. In the film she is essentially slut-shamed into not going any higher than 20 and she only decides to trawl through her exes because she doesn’t want to be a woman with a higher number than 20 because guys don’t like it. Which makes me want to explode. At one point she tells a guy that she’s had 20 partners and he actually says “yuck.” Her friends try to make her feel bad about it and one of them says that women who have sex with lots of different guys have low self-esteem. I’m not saying that’s not maybe true of some women but that’s not just universally true. Some women just like sex and they enjoy it with more than one partner. And it’s not “gross” and it doesn’t say anything about who the woman is herself. So, enoooough.

Once you ignore the ridiculous plot of the film, it’s alright. There are some funny bits and Colin was sweet. But seriously, people of the planet. It doesn’t matter if you have sex with lots of different people or if you don’t have sex at all. All that matters is that it’s what you want.

5/10

Wednesday, 20 March 2013

Day 79: To Wong Foo, Thanks For Everything, Julie Newmar



On their way to a beauty pageant in Hollywood, three drag queens end up in a tiny ‘traditional’ town. While there, they bring some life into the town and they remind the women of their strength.

You know when you’re watching a film and you get angry at one of the characters and you end up saying things like “If you so much as touch her I will batter you”? I always get so caught up in fiction and clearly forget that I can’t smack characters. And then when you have two characters that you want to throttle, well, it’s all the more difficult to remember that it is just a film. First up you’ve got the racist cop who then tries to kiss Vida (Patrick Swayze) despite her saying no. He puts his hand up her dress (rage) and finds a penis, and she knocks him to the ground. They should’ve ran him over. Second up, we’ve got the wife beater. How can you hurt someone you’re meant to love? I don’t understand how anyone could do that, it is so terrible. Vida helps Carol Ann (Stockard Channing) find her strength and she stands up to her waste of space husband, driving him out of town.

How exciting must road trips be? You're seeing so many new things and new places, it just seems excellent. If I don't go on a road trip at some point then my life shall have been a waste. Just imagine, you've got your good company, your good music, and you can go anywhere you want. It just sounds like the best time.

Patrick Swayze is such a beautiful woman, I’m always so taken with him every time I watch this film. I wish his character did exist in real life, I’d love to be friends with Miss Vida Boheme. This film is really great. It’s such a wonderful scene when the whole town stick up for Vida, Noxeema (Wesley Snipes) and Chi Chi (John Leguizamo) against the cop. They don’t care that they’re a little outside of what they’re used to because they’ve brought such life to an old town and to their lives.

“When a straight man puts on a dress and gets his sexual kicks, he is a transvestite. When a man is a woman trapped in a man’s body and has the little operation, he is a transsexual. When a gay man has way too much fashion sense for one gender, he is a drag queen.”

8/10